Showing posts with label tips. Show all posts
Showing posts with label tips. Show all posts

Thursday, February 6, 2014

Who do YOU want to be?

Good evening everyone! Anemone went off to her parents' house for the weekend, and I have no clue if she'll be posting or not~
Guess I've gotta double the content!
I started the Joey challenge tonight, but the video still needs editing, so I'm working on that. It'll be up tomorrow!
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So first off, it's today's challenge!
Day 6: Alignment
Yet another one that's RPG-specific...~ I would have to pick Lawful Evil.
Lawful Evil characters, for those who don't know, are likely to be the evil masterminds behind a plot to take over the world. They're smart, cunning, and abide by their own rules. And they can seriously "fuck up yo' shit". These guys are so beautiful~
I prefer them to Chaotic Evil, as Chaotic Evil characters are dicks just for the sake of being dicks. Like, they'd rob a store and kill the owner just to fuck with some people because they can. Because they have power. And that's not cool in my book...
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But world domination is~!
Alignments of Game of Thrones~
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It's that special (18+) time of the day to lock the door, curl up alone in your room, and read
Aggroe's HTD!
This one involves a schoolgirl and kemomimi... C-C-COMBO BREAKER!
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It's vanilla~ And I enjoyed it more than I care to admit!

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Now, for the daily dose of Japan!
魔女(まじょ)
Pronounced "mah-joh"
Romanized as "majyo" or "majo"
It means "witch", and it's specifically feminine. Typically, witches in Japan are viewed as cute, and anyone who's seen Mahou Shoujo Madoka Magika knows that.
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Now, since I'm (un)popular, I'll talk about some life tips!
I've struggled a lot through my life with who I am vs who I want to be. I spent a lot of time chilling with guys in elementary/middle school, yes I was one of THOSE girls. I didn't hang out with girls because they "always talked about drama, makeup, boys, and how painful breaking a nail is". I'm a lot more intelligent now. Gender roles suck monkey balls for both men and women, and both sides have unrealistic expectations placed upon them.
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But I digress.
Basically, I've learned a ton about growing up by... well... Growing up! Moving away from my mother was difficult, and my dad's been dead for my whole life. Not gone, but dead.
Anyways, I spent a lot of time taking care of others, worrying about what they thought of me, or if I was doing the right thing for them. Am I giving them the right advice? This comes from having to take care of my mom emotionally for most of my life.
What I've learned the past few months is here, in this list... Hopefully it'll help anyone struggling with growing up and becoming the person they want to be!
 (But first, some related pictures~)





1. Spend time each day doing something that makes you happy!
This can be anything from a picnic in the park with a friend, going on a walk on a nice Fall morning, listening to your favorite music, or reading a good book! Don't worry about anyone else during this time! If it makes you happy, it IS WORTH DOING. I can't make that clear enough!
Remember, barring reincarnation, you only get one life to live. Enjoy it! To be really cheesy, "live, love, and laugh often".
2. If someone doesn't accept you for who you are/want to become, they aren't worth your time.
A great example of this is an old friend I had in middle school, the only girl. She was masculine, though. She was going through some trouble in her life, and I was always trying to help her out, and give her advice...
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She called me annoying and threatened me with a butcher knife, TWICE.

Pretty much was done with that shit, she didn't make me feel good about myself, about who I ENJOYED being.
Don't be around someone like her! Spend time with people who appreciate you, people who only want you to change if YOU want to change yourself.
3. It doesn't matter what you want, go out and do it.
How did I get to Japan? By making it happen, of course. Now, it wasn't easy. I spent years learning Japanese, and when an opportunity arose, I was stoked!... Until I realized that I couldn't get the money together in time. But what do you know, a week later, someone had agreed to give me a scholarship to pay for my ticket! And then I got on that plane at age 17, and it changed my life forever!
Point is, do what you want to do! Make it happen, no matter what~
There is always a way.

4. If there's something negative in your life, get it OUT!
This one goes along with 2, but it can be ANYTHING. A picture of an ex that brings back fear/negative memories, a belief that causes harm to yourself and/or others, or even just an emotion you don't want.
What it really comes down to, though, is how you WANT to feel. Did you know that it's possible to physically rewire a human brain, by thought alone? Thought and action makes the change more immediate, but you don't NEED both. Instead of focusing on a nasty breakup or that your work is cutting back your hours and, therefore, your pay, try and focus on the beautiful scenery around you. Realize that everything in life changes, or is removed, in order to become or make way for something better...
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Make sure your emotions aren't in the way.

5. Become who you want to become by doing what you want to do!
This is something I struggle with every day. Between paying bills, registering for college, cleaning the house, and trying to maintain a social life, I don't have as much time to myself as I'd like... But if I think about all the opportunities out there, and go out and DO them instead of just thinking about doing them, I feel a lot better!
Now, I have a fear of heights... But I want to be more adventurous. Therefore, I'm planning a bungee jumping trip in August with my roommates! Crazy, right? I dunno if I'll have the money, but I'll find a way to make it work! Life is short, so ENJOY it! Money doesn't last forever, family doesn't last forever, video games and anime don't last forever... So use those things to make yourself into a better person!
Who knows, maybe spending so much time on yourself will put you in better shape to help people~
6. Reach out of your comfort zone.
I mean, you won't grow if you allow your life to stagnate~ You won't ever learn new things if you stick with what you already know and don't even TRY anything else! A good friend tells me often that people regret more the things they HAVEN'T done, but wanted to, deep down inside. Regret isn't fun to deal with, and you're more likely to regret not trying something new! 
GO OUT THERE AND LIVE YOUR LIFE! MAKE ME PROUD~
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I've been wanting to talk about that for a while, but haven't been sure how to word it... I hope it helps those of you struggling to find yourself~ It's not selfish, it's just called living~
Good night, and sweet dreams~
~Aggroe~

Thursday, January 30, 2014

Eating disorders and how to cope~ (More of Aggroe's free therapy!)

Yoooo~! I hope everyone's having a good night! First off, some business~
If you like the blog, check out this page and ask me some questions! Next, I wanted to remind everyone to both add us on Facebook and like our page as well~ We update the page more frequently, but we're working on updating them the same amount!
Also, we're just about done with that truth or dare video from a few weeks back...~
I'm working on Monster Girl Quest part 2, Amnesia part 2, and a new Pokemon Challenge! So look forward to those~
Today, I'll be talking about some eating disorders, and how to cope with them. I personally haven't had an eating disorder, but I do understand the mindset and the psychology behind it. Think about this as free therapy~!
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Day 29: Anime Eyes
I would pick Sunako Nakahara's eyes, from Yamato Nadeshiko Shichi Henge.
She's played up in the anime to be really ugly, and unfeminine... But in reality, she's not that bad looking~ Her eyes are my favorite! I love their shape and color, she looks refined, mysterious, and kind of shy... I LOVE IT~
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Now, for the daily dose of Japan~
Today is another word.
お回さん (おまわりさん)
Romanized as "omawari-san"

Pronounced "oh-ma-wa-ri-sa-n"
It means police officer, specifically the one's patrolling a certain street or area. I don't think they are around as much anymore, but if you see one and are having some kind of trouble, suck as someone stealing your purse, then you can call one over to help.
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Now, the 18+ fun all you perverts have been waiting for...~
Aggroe's HTD!
Not that you guys really need to know or anything, but I really love maids and monster girls typically pick these hentai randomly. This one happened to be pretty cool~ It's mostly a bunch of h-pictures of cat-eared maids... In color, no less~! holyshitifeellikeishouldn'tbereadingthisrightnow 
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*ahem*
Enjoy!
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Now for the talk of eating disorders! Before I get into it, remember... Even men develop this, due to social pressure! Just as women are expected to be thin, yet have large breasts, men are expected to be thin with huge muscles. Just look at Barbie and He-Man! Those names! Those expectations!










First off, I'd like to talk about the two different kinds, and where they come from.
There's Anorexia Nervosa and Bulimia Nervosa. Both of these are started by low self esteem, high standards of society, and/or wanting control over one's life.
They are typically associated with girls, but in modern society the numbers are evening out. The statistics are somewhere around 1 man for every 4 women (Anorexia) and 1 man for every 8-11 women (Bulimia). Typically, males are older than females when they develop an eating disorder, women usually begin in adolescence and young adulthood. Anorexia is thought to occur in 1/100 women, and Bulimia occurs in 3/100 women, but these numbers tend to be higher in college settings due to the higher stress level and need for control.
The origins of the words are pretty interesting, despite being quite old and not entirely accurate. Anorexia comes from the words "an" and "orexia", meaning "without appetite". Bulimia stems from "bous" and "limos", meaning "the hunger of an ox".
Now let me explain what they are.
Anorexia Nervosa is when a person chooses to go without food, and this reason doesn't stem from lack of appetite at all. Rather, it comes from a lack of self-esteem, a drive to be better and thinner, wanting to get back at a parent, and/or the need for control of SOMETHING in life. Anything. Life is unpredictable, and everyone wants some control over their life, that's very understandable. It is OFFICIALLY defined as someone who refuses to maintain a body weight above 85% of the recommended body weight for their height.

Bulimia Nervosa is defined by cycles of binging and purging, sometimes with vigorous exercise added as well. Basically, Bulimia is when someone eats a large amount of food in a short amount of time, and then consumes laxatives in order to purge it all from their system... Another common way to purge is by throwing back up what one just ate. Typically it stems from the same issues as Anorexia, though there is typically more guilt associated with Bulimia.
Both of these are very hard on one's body, and so below I will list the negative effects of both.
















Anorexia
Some of the impacts this disorder has on your body are:
1. Slow Heart Rate
This happens for a multitude of reasons. The major reason, however, is because your body isn't getting the nutrients it needs to function. A scarier reason is that your heart is simply having trouble working. An interesting fact is that the body, in starvation mode, tends to burn muscle to fat at a 3:1 ratio. This means that your body slowly digests away your muscles, including your heart.
2. Low Blood Pressure
A lot of the time, you hear that high blood pressure is a problem... So is low blood pressure. This is directly related to the fact that your heart isn't beating as much, nor is it as strong as it should be. Also, as mentioned, your heart isn't getting the ATP and nutrients that it needs to run.
3. Low Body Temperature
It's a well known fact that those with low body fat have less insulation, and are therefore colder, not to mention overweight people are exactly the opposite, in that respect. This can be dangerous as it allows one to develop hypothermia and frostbite more easily.
4. Amenorrhea
This is only associated with women. Basically, it means that your menstrual cycle stops. Bye bye period! That may sound pretty good at first, but in reality, one's menstrual cycle provides hormones and chemicals needed for a lot of things in the body! It can cause infertility, brittle bones, estrogen deficiency (which causes excess hair growth, smaller breast size, and bone loss), and ovarian cysts.
One reason for the disorder is the perspective due to society's constant admonishing.
Bulimia Nervosa
1. Sore Throat
This is due to the constant regurgitation. The acid in one's stomach slowly tears down the lining in one's throat, doing a lot of damage to the esophagus, throat, salivary glands, and the enamel of one's teeth.
2. Gastrointestinal Issues
This can include constipation, irregular bowel movements, bloating, diarrhea, and abdominal cramping. These aren't issues immediately, though they are slightly frustrating to deal will, and will cause bigger problems if it continues.
3. Anemia
It's a problem with both Anorexia and Bulimia, but it is basically not getting enough iron in your diet. This is caused by both not eating it in the first place, and also by purging what iron you do happen to eat.
4. Ulcers
These are present in both the throat/mouth, and the stomach/digestive system. Ulcers can be very dangerous if not taken care of right away.








 
So that's basically the gist of what they are and what they do to one's body. Now, I will talk, specifically, to those who suffer from these types of mentalities.
Tip #1
So first off, similar to depression, have some sort of motivation! Remember that you are beautiful for who you are, and if you set some long term goals that don't have to do with weight, then focusing on them will help to break the cycle! I have dealt with feelings of inadequacy and lack of control, and have always dealt with them by giving myself a reason to strive. What are you working towards?
Tip #2 (this is mainly for A.N.)

Next, I recommend trying to find healthy ways to lose weight online. Instead of not eating at all, why not drink a protein shake in the morning and again at night? Accompanied by light exercise, of course. In a week and a half of working out, and trying to get down from 260 lbs, I've already lost quite a bit of fat and gained some muscles by eating right, working out, and sleeping.
I do understand that the mentality of losing control and of inadequacy are both hard to forget... Not to mention the habits that form and the guilt that comes with eating.. which sort of leads into my third point.
Tip #3
This one is going to be a lot harder to do, but find someone you trust. A school counselor, a parent, a teacher, a close friend... Even if you're writing it to yourself in a letter, tell someone. Getting it out there makes it something more tangible, something that's more easily dealt with.
Now when telling someone, think of who will be supportive. If they aren't supportive of you, then they aren't worth telling. That sounds harsh, but if you tell someone who will choose to bring you down, you'll only be hurt more in the end.

Tip #4 (for B.N.)
Binging and purging becomes a vicious cycle. Breaking out of it can be tough, and it will take a lot of work. I don't struggle with this, but I do struggle with an OCD-type disorder called Dermatillomania. I find that having a hobby really helps me keep my mind off of it. Whenever I feel the compulsion, I will myself to sit down and pick up a book. I really like books, so that works well for me. Within a half an hour, I'm so engrossed in the reading that I forget why I started in the first place!
Dealing with the compulsion to binge is a lot harder in some ways, however. It's the same concept, however. Find something that makes you feel at ease, that you truly enjoy doing. Whenever you want to binge and purge, take part in a hobby, instead!
Tip #5

This may or may not help, but find someone who cares. Know that they care. Remind yourself, every day, of what would happen to them if something bad did happen to you.
Perhaps get a pet, and engross yourself in taking care of it! Watch it grow, learn new things, and you will realize that this creature depends on you! The life of another creature is under your control, and you can take care of it!

Also, remember, that I'm rooting for you! In today's world of insults, just remember... Everyone is insecure about something. EVERYONE. That means me, Anemone, our roommates, your best friend, even assholes.
There are very few people in this world who are happy about who they are... Don't feel guilty. You haven't done anything wrong.
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Now, I've got to wrap it up since my computer is screaming at me to stop~
I've got some fun stuff for you!
First off, how much time have YOU wasted on facebook? 
I've wasted 18 days or so...
 
Next, there's a really funny slogan generator site that one of my roommates discovered!
Below are some great examples, from the mundane, to the 12 year old boy humor, to the 18+ humor~
Did some of those evoke a laugh? I know I spent a big part of the afternoon laughing more than I should have at this with Anemone~! Go forth, and make your OWN slogans~
I suppose that's about all I have for you tonight. In the meantime, enjoy!
Good night, and sweet dreams~
~Aggroe~

Sunday, January 26, 2014

The D-word, and how to manage~ (Oh stop thinking about it that way, you pervs!)

Yo! So yesterday, I promised some folklore today. I'm sort of a mythology buff and I love fun little trivia facts about beliefs, both old and new! But I realized today that I've been lying a bit.
I've been pretty depressed lately.
Not too much, but it got me to thinking that EVERYONE has days like that. Y'know, days where you don't wanna crawl out of bed. So today (after the challenge, HTD, and Japanese fact) I'll be talking a bit about how to tackle your depression!
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What time is it? CHALLENGE TIME! (imagine that with the proper logo, pwease~)
Day 25: Loli!
My loli would be one of two people, both from Hayate no Gotoku.
First competitor would be the tsundere, Lady Nagi!
I'm not really into the whole "sexualizing little kids" thing at all, so I don't mean this in a weird way. BUT SHE'S SO DAMN CUTE!
THAT FACE!
THOSE EYES!
THAT HAIR! I WANT TO CUDDLE HER AND HUG HER AND COMFORT HER AND PROTECT HER!
Second option would be Taiga (I think that's his name...), who's also from HnG.
Yes, that is a boy, I promise~ He's just so cute! That tall guy next to him is his butler, but... He doesn't really act like one. He treats Taiga as if HE'S the servant.
Still, that kid is super adorable~
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I'm not popular, so let's read some hentai together!
18+ only please~
Aggroe's HTD!

Now this one's... a bit... awholemotherfuckinglot... fucked up. Well, it relates to the post because there are LOLIS IN IT! Also... there's mpreg. For those who don't know that means men. Who somehow defy the laws of everything. And get pregnant.
Now the "Pregnant Man" still had working female parts, so THAT makes sense! These are two YOUNG BOYS WHO ARE RAPED!
WHY DID I READ THIS!
EXCUSEMEWHILEIBLEACHMYEYES!
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*ahem*
Now that that's over with, I can post the daily dose of Japan!
嬉しい(うれしい)
Romanized as "ureshii"
Pronounced "oo-re-shee"
This word means happy. But not just happy, it means exuberant. Ecstatic. Typically you say this when someone makes you happy by giving you a gift, visiting you, or taking you on a date to a place you enjoy~ You can even say it just to say that you're happy about seeing them!
You can say that someone looks happy by saying "ureshisou" (oo-re-shee-so; 嬉しそう;うれしそう)

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Finally, the moment you've all been waiting for...~
So for a bit of background, depression runs in my family. That doesn't mean, however, that it controls my life. I do go through stages where I refuse to get out of bed and cry myself to sleep at night for stupid reasons. Hell, I've even considered suicide once or twice.
But it hasn't beat me and it never will.
I guess that leads into my first point,
Find a way to motivate yourself!
I recommend doing this before depression sets in. Basically, for me this means thinking about everything I wouldn't get done if I stayed in my room all day. All the opportunities I'd miss.
I mean, someone's day could be made just a bit better if you went outside and smiled at them!
Motivate yourself to keep going, even when you feel like falling! The problem with depression is that it's a cycle, a vicious one.
You stay indoors, so you feel down.
You feel down, so you stay indoors.
And it keeps going and going and going...
If you know it will happen, find motivation ahead of time! A reason to get out of bed! Even if you don't prepare a list of all you want to accomplish and what you want to do~ Basically, reasons to get out of bed.
Some great reasons that help me are...
1. But you have school today! Don't skip classes, or you'll NEVER earn your PhD!
2. What about hula hooping? Isn't that still a thing?
3. Oh come on, there must be SOME kind of anime you wanted to watch today...
4. Get up and love your snake! Her life depends on you!
5. What about that hot bod you want? It won't sculpt itself!
Get outside in the sunlight!
Vitamn D in sunlight really can help cheer you up. I find that if I lay down in the sun, I feel happier, warmer, and generally better than when I lay down in bed.
I mean, if you're gonna spend the day lying down ANYways...~
Don't dwell on what you can't change.
I don't know about you, but MY brain likes to tell me all about everything I've ever done wrong. But you know what, fuck that! I've done a lot RIGHT, too! Also, you can't change the past so why dwell on it?
My favorite metaphor for this...
Say you spilled some milk on the ground. Since it's already happened, you can't change it! So from here on, you have three options. You can...
a) Walk past the milk, and let it spoil on the floor, pretending it never happened and then NEVER get the spill cleaned...
b) Freak out and throw a fit over it, panicking over what to do and again, it will never get cleaned up...
c) Or you can realize that you made a mistake and clean up the milk.

C is the obvious answer, right?
Realize what you did, that what happened can't be changed. You still have to buy new milk! Then do what you can to fix it. Clean up the milk and buy some more.

Don't dwell on negative emotions. Recognize them, feel them for 10~15 minutes, then move along.
I realize that it's difficult, but here are some tactics to help!
1. Meditate
2. Pray
3. Focus your mind on something else, like blogging!
Exercise BEFORE it gets to be a problem!
I know, I know, cliche. But it really does work wonders! Even if it's just yoga in the mornings and evenings, or 5 crunches, or even just one pull-up! Stay active!
A fun fact about exercise is that it pumps endorphins and dopamine through your brain!
Endorphins are essentially the body's natural painkiller. They make you feel physically alright, and are also released whenever you're injured -though I don't recommend cutting yourself as an antidepressant- and are just a great thing in general! Dopamine makes you happy, it gives you that warm, fuzzy feeling and is also the cause of most addictions (this would be orgasms, exercise, music, etc... most drugs too, unfortunately).
Once you exercise a bit, you'll want to exercise more!
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Now these two aren't really tips, but they're important as well.
PLEASE don't hurt yourself! There are much better ways to deal with loneliness, sadness, and depression. Talk to your doctor, your parents, your friends. Anyone. Find someone to trust. I don't trust many people, but when I need to talk to someone I do it. If I don't want to tell anyone, I write it down. Usually in the form of a fictional story, but sometimes a letter to myself.
Also, for some, antidepressants are the only option. Most of the time, depression can be help under control with exercise, a positive mindset, the right diet, and supportive people... But if you do have to take the dreaded antidepressants, then I recommend a Selective Seratonin Reuptake Inhibitor (SSRI). SSRIs are things like Prozac/Serafem. What they do is keep seratonin from being recycled, therefore more seratonin stays in the brain longer. Low seratonin levels are typically connected with OCD type disorders, shyness, social anxiety, and depression. SSRIs are generally great because even though they take 6-8 weeks to work, they have very little side effects compared to other types of antidepressants.
All in all, do what you can to keep a positive outlook!
Don't hold it inside. Recognize how you feel, deal with it in a proper way, and keep on keeping on!
And you know what else?
I think that you are BEAUTIFUL! If you ever, for one second, think that you're alone in this world, remember... You're not. You have people who love you.
What would your pets do without you?
What about your family? Your friends? Your roomates?
What about everyone you said hello to?
You are all important to someone! I can't make this clear enough!
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I hope that those tips will help some of you. I know it helped me to get it down~ THERAPY FOR ALL!
YAY!
So yeah.
Check these out if you need a laugh~
OHSHC - I Like A Boy In Uniform
Abridge on Titan (SnK Abridged)
Why Russia Won't Marry You, Belarus (Hetalia MMD)
The Pony.MOV Series! (I recommend 18+)
Hetalia -I Will Survive!
Pokemon Philosophy with James
Jenna Marbles Drops Some Beets!
Your Grammar Sucks! ALL THE RAPS!
And as always... Good night, and sweet dreams~
~Aggroe~

Loli's, Vanilla, and Being Yourself!

Yo everyone! 
Hope it's going well! So today I am a bit sick. I have a headache, a fever, and a stomach ache. I blame Aggroe (Even though I wasn't home to catch it and I spent all week with my sick family). I still blame her~
Thus I didn't do much but nap and eat today. Sorry! I don't have anything special planned to talk about today, though I was talking with Aggroe earlier and remembered that while I was looking in the mirror today I was determining the kind of person I want to be~
So I think today I'll post a few things that help me become the geeky, feminine person I want to be and hopefully give some helpful tips on being yourself~!

Day 24- Maid

My maid would have to be little Italy from Hetalia!
He's such a cutie pop and I adore how he looks as a maid~ Is that creepy?


Day 25- Loli

Hani from Ouran High School Host Club or as I like to call him "Honey". Or I would choose Nagisa from Free! Iwatobi Swim Club! BECAUSE CUTE LITTLE BOYS OH MY GOSH <3 I have a soft spot for adorable anime guys~ Or even Ciel from Black Butler because they are all SO GOSH DARN CUTE. (I can go on and on if I get to thinking but I'll leave it at this for now~).
 Also I don't care if you say they are not lolis~ They are adorable little boys and that's good enough for me! :D






Just to be sure let's add little Gilbert for good measure :D

18+!!!
 Now what you have all been waiting for~ Drum roll please!
Anemone's HENTAI OF THE DAY :D
I tried to look for a little boy hentai because DAMMIT LITTLE BOYS ARE CUTE and we were on the subject of loli's so why not?
No. You know what came up. Very disturbing things. VERY. Disturbing things.
So instead here is some vanilla for you~
Sweet Sweat

Today I was talking to Aggroe about the kind of person I want to be. I'm going to post a few of my own personal goals and then post a few questions and tips for you guys!

1. I want to be a very feminine lady~

I want to be viewed as put together, classy, intelligent, and preppy. Now doing all this and being geeky don't really go hand in hand. Though in my mind it really does!
Take Kaga-san for example! She looks very cute and preppy and pretty and she is very feminine~ I would like to put off the looks and attitude of Kaga! I want to read manga and books, watch anime, cosplay and still look like a high class lady~
 I can be elegant, classy, and geeky all at the same time!

My Princess Euphemia cosplay proves it!








2. I want to feel accomplished!

I want to stick to my cosplay plans, blog every day, and catch up on all the half finished anime I watched. I would love to feel proud of all the things I accomplish!
I've accomplished the blogging every day and I'm sticking to it because I LOVE IT! Now let's get working on those cosplays!

3. I want to be intelligent~

I have poor grammar, I can't write well, and I have a lot of spelling errors. So hopefully I will get better as I blog more with Aggroe! I want to view myself as an intelligent person. I'm currently learning French because I love the language~ I'll see if I can get someone to teach me Elvish ;)






So here is my mini questionnaire for you all!

1. You want others to view you as:
a. Classy
b. Intelligent
c. Tsundere
d. Masculine or Feminine (This is not gender specific)
e. Other

2. You are proud of:
a. Your style/body
b. Your grades/job/eucation
c. Your accomplishments/hard work
d. Your hobbies/ dedication
e. Other

3. Your best feature is:
a. Your posture
b. Your brains
c. Your dedication
d. Your laid back attitude
e. Other

4. You want to be with someone who is mostly:
a. Attractive
b. Smart
c. Has a strong personality
d. Is funny
e. Other

5. You are very:
a. Mature
b. Observant
c. Opinionated
d. Chill
e. Other

You can probably guess the answers just by the questions but I'll give them to you anyways~

A) You are as elegant and beautiful as Kaga-san/Sebastian.
B) You are as smart as Kyoya
C) You are as adventurous/ determined as Taiga/ Hikari
D) You are as manly as Tsumugu or as feminine as Princess Euphemia
E) You are a very unique person~
Kaga
Sebastian

Kyoya
Taiga

Hikari
Euphemia

Tsumugu

Now the meaning of this silly little quiz is to think of who you are and what it is in life that you want. Of course you're going to pick the answers you want to each questions. When I take quizzes I like to pick the answers to the questions so that I'll get the answer I want instead of answering the questions truthfully. Take a moment to look back at the ones you picked and the ones that you are most like. Really think about the difference between who you are and who you want to be. 
Maybe you chose all the ones that you are and don't like the answer. Change it! Be who YOU want to be~
Maybe you chose all the ones you are and you love it~ Then you should understand yourself and be proud of yourself <3
If you chose E Then you sound like you are looking for yourself! I personally think that E type characters are very unique and they are my favorite type of people~
Now go be yourself~!
Also, Aggroe and I noticed a lot of people like our more personal/inspiring posts so we will try and do more of them more often! Which wont be hard considering we are teenagers living on our own and joining the adult world.
Anyways I am very tired and I think that's enough for tonight! I need sleep. Desperately. Goodnight Everyone!
Anemone <3